Understanding Attraction Marketing

In our previous discussion we left it hanging at the point of how I used to chase after people with my network marketing opportunity.

 

I I couldn’t appreciate why people, my friends, my family would not or could not see the opportunity. Or why they didn’t want to brighten their standing in life. Truly I still don’t understand that one. But that’s the sad truth.

 

Can you relate to, since I was old enough to get a job, I haven’t been happy or satisfied with the working man’s life.

 

How can anyone be appreciative with the fact that they are told what time to be at a particular building, whether or not they can go to dinner and how long to take.

 

They’re told how long they have to work, if they have to stay past the accepted quitting time. “It’s my birthday”.. Doesn’t matter. Nothing in your life matters. Your boss’ needs matter. Don’t it suck?.

 

Well those assortments of people, for the most part, will forever be right where they are. There are a million and one reasons why these people desire to stay in their limited life situations and only they appreciate what those reasons are. You don’t need to know. You just need to carry on.

 

Understanding Attraction Marketing Confession

 

I have something to acknowledge which the women readers may initially be upset with me but will understand and forgive me when they realize I’ve learned the truth.

 

For a lengthy time in my life whenever the subject, not network marketing, came up which included women and men I was sort of famous for saying “women want what they can’t have”.

 

I remember frequent occasions when a group of guys were about and a new, or at least, fairly new girl was thrown into the mix she would be the center of focus and guys would just fall all over her.

 

Although! If there was a guy in the group who was at least average in every way and wasn’t giving her all the wooing the other guys were.he’s the one she was looking at and wondering about.

 

I’ve since learned that it’s not just women who react that way (so don’t hate me ladiesJ). It’s a human condition. Men are exactly the same way. PEOPLE want what they can’t (or think they can’t) have.

 

If you’ve been in sales in your lifetime you know about “the takeaway”. “You know Mr. Jones if you don’t make a decision you’re not going to get this widget at this price”. People don’t like to be conquered, they don’t like to be left out. People love to buy.but THEY HATE TO BE SOLD.

 

So what is the bottom line here? Well there is a very large number of individuals of people, the majority, who will never get involved with your network marketing opportunity. If that size of a gang did get involved MLM wouldn’t be the great opportunity that it is.

 

That is not to insist that you don’t give them the chance. Even though you know the mass won’t, don’t be the one who decides who does and who doesn’t. Now I hope it’s clear I’m not talking about the total %&#*^#@ that NOBODY wants to be around.

 

Let every aggreeable person you know tell you no. Don’t pursue them. Don’t try to talk them into it. Give them all the knowledge they need to make a decision. If they say no.you’re out the door to the next one.

 

They’ll be aghast. Don’t be surprised, not that you should count or dwell on it, if they come around in a while and say “tell me about that nitwok monkeying thing again”.

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